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It’s Not Just Legal—It’s Deeply Personal
We avoid it because it feels uncomfortable. Or maybe we are too busy.
But the truth is, life is unpredictable.
And if something happened to you tomorrow, would your family know what to do?
As parents or carers or simply responsible adults, we pour ourselves into our loved ones. Keeping them safe, planning for their future, and showing up in a million small ways.
But one of the most powerful acts of love is one we often put off: and that is creating a will.
The Pain of Being Unprepared
For those loved ones left behind, they may face complex processes to follow and, often, there can be distressing disputes between family members.
There are so many issues involved, such as –
- legal stuff like wills,
- powers of attorney,
- advance health directives (if required),
- complexities of superannuation,
- taxation issues,
- and extra complications when there are overseas assets or beneficiaries who live overseas.
When there are no written wishes or instructions, this makes the whole grieving situation far worse. It leads to further heartbreak, and it is preventable.
If There is No Will, What Happens to Your Stuff?
This is not pleasant, but without a will, things can become even more traumatic for the loved ones left behind.
For example:
The legal system decides who gets what—not you
Guardianship of your children could be left to a court’s decision
Your assets might be tied up for months—or years
Loved ones may argue or struggle with uncertainty
That’s not what any of us want, nor deserve.
A Will Is A Final Act of Love
When you create a will, you’re not just handling paperwork. You are also:
Naming trusted guardians for your children
Ensuring your assets go where they’re meant to
Giving your loved ones clarity during crisis
Protecting the legacy you’ve worked hard to build
Most importantly, you’re giving your family peace when they’ll need it most.
What You Can Do Today
You don’t have to figure it all out at once. But you can start a simple process today which may include:
Writing down who you would trust to care for your children
List your assets, accounts, and anything meaningful
Speak with a legal professional or estate planner
Communicate your wishes clearly
Planning Ahead Leaves More Than Instructions
Writing your will is an act of protection, preparation, and profound love.
It says:
“If life changes, and I pass away unexpectedly, then I have thought of you so much and planned ahead so it will be easier for you. I’ve made sure you’re okay, and I love you.”
For your loved ones and for your own peace of mind, get prepared and get your will sorted as soon as you can.
In the following article, I have included different Will Templates that you can use today to get started.
Key Will Requirements and Templates